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Introduction

Manual Overview

BOOK I: Faith Community Curriculum for Clergy and Lay Leaders

BOOK II: Family Violence: Helping Survivors and Abusers – A Manual for Faith Communities
Purpose

Definitions
Survivors:
   - Characteristics

   - Indicators of Abuse
   - Actions to Consider
   - Safety Concerns
   - Crisis Counseling and
      Spiritual Support

   - Asking a question:
      Is your partner hurting you?

Abusers (batterers):
   - Understanding Abusers

   - Interventions
   - Treatment
   - Safety Issues
   - Use of Scripture
Marriage and Relationship:
Understanding Scripture Intent

Marriage Preparation:
   - Key Elements

   - Early Warning Signs
   - I Corinthians 13
Supportive background materials:
   - ABC's of Men Who Batter

   - Abuser Quotes
   - Myths About Abusers
   - Self-Assessment Tool
   - Alexandra House Safety Plan
   - Checklist - What to take
     when you leave

Minnesota Metro
Community Resources

Sources and Acknowledgments

BOOK III: Pastor’s Packet: Family Violence Awareness Materials for Pastors

BOOK IV: Curriculum for Laity

Appendix

Purpose

The purpose of this manual is to provide information and suggestions to those individuals in faith communities who work on a personal basis with laity experiencing violence in the home. It is intended to provide suggested responses when identifying violent relationships.

Research has shown that, while clergy stated their training in counseling was lacking, 84% had counseled survivors of violence in the home in the course of their pastoral work (Weaver, 1995). In one study of 1,000 women who were survivors of family violence, one- third of them received help from clergy and one-tenth of the batterers were counseled by clergy (Weaver, 1995).

For your safety and the safety of others:
Those utilizing the information contained in this manual are reminded to apply the following principles when working with individuals experiencing or perpetrating violence in their homes:

  • Recognize your personal and professional limitations.
  • Always utilize the knowledge of individuals in the community who possess specialized education and expertise in the area of family violence. These include survivor advocates, specialists working for batterer programs and mental health professionals.
  • Generally, your primary role is to provide spiritual and emotional support and access to community resources.