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Self-Assessment
Tool
See "Domestic Violence
Test"
- Are you afraid of your partner?
- Have you been hit, kicked, choked, pushed, or otherwise
hurt by your partner?
- Has your partner restrained you and/or dragged you by
the hair?
- Does your partner prevent you from working?
- Has your partner threatened to kill you, your children,
your pets, or him/her self?
- Does your partner force you to have sex or touch you
sexually when you do not want to be?
- Does your partner take away your money and/or control
all the money?
- Does your partner call you names such as fat, ugly,
stupid, or crazy?
- Does your partner use your religious or spiritual beliefs
to control you?
- Are you able to see family and friends without guilt
or fear?
- Does your partner put you down in front of other people?If
you answered yes to any of the above you are very possibly in an abusive
relationship.
Local domestic abuse
hotline
Free & Confidential
- Are you extremely jealous?
- Do you have a need to control your partner's activities
such as attending or not attending social events, seeing other friends
or visiting family?
- Do you use physical force to solve problems?
- Do you "lose control" when you consume drugs
or alcohol?
- Do you believe you are the head of the household and
should not be challenged?
- Are you worried about stress, anger or losing your temper?
- Do you sometimes feel out of control with your children?
- Are you concerned about losing someone you love?
- Do you have concerns about feeling angry with people
that you care most about?
- When you get frustrated or angry do you explode?
- Did one of your parents physically or emotionally hurt
the other?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions, it is
possible you are a batterer.
Call the Men's Line: 612-379-6367 (Minnesota)
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